Read below for a few innovative tips that might make your wardrobe experience a little bit easier.
Be prepared.
How a child reacts to the changing table can be a good indicator of how they will react to the dressing room. Recognize a fussy dresser before they are old enough to argue, and you might be able to reverse the problem before it starts.
- Make sure your hands are room temperature. If your baby learns early on that it is uncomfortable and cold when getting dressed, he/she may subconsciously carry that on and fight you every step of the way.
- Play soothing music. Your baby might not be ready for a deep conversation about the fun you can have getting dressed, but he/she can appreciate atmosphere. Make things musically pleasant for them now, and later on they may remember that feeling of calm. Do a good enough job of this and you might have trouble keeping them IN their clothing.
Understand their limits.
Don't expect your little one to stand at attention and follow all of your directions. If he/she starts to bolt around the room every time you try to get down to business, then perhaps you should turn it into a game. However, the game should be centered on actually getting dressed. Running around and laughing may be fun, but this will only reinforce their bad habits. Instead, focus on the aspect of getting dressed quickly. If peek-a-boo isn't working, you might try a race the finish style game. Who can get dressed the fastest?!
Freedom!
Your toddler is at just the right age to begin taking on small responsibilities. He/she may be fighting you because they are rejecting your authority. And, while this needs to be kept in check until they are old and wise enough to care for themselves, you can encourage a little Independence by allowing them to dress themselves. Make it simply for them by picking out 2 choices. Lay these out, go away, and come back when they have finished. Make it clear that you are excited to see which one they choose. Make them feel proud, not punished. "You had better be in one of those when I get back", for example, sounds like a punishment. A threat. "I can't wait to see which one you picked out when I get back" would work much better.
Give a little.
If you want to win the wardrobe war, you have to lose a few battles. Your little one is at their creative peak. They are just beginning their journey to find out who they are, what they like, and what they don't like. This means they may have a wacky fashion sense. Try to be understanding and supportive by allowing them to wear something that you may not have put together yourself. So what if he/she goes to school wearing green striped pants and a pink and orange bunny shirt. They are only this little once.
This blog post was provided by Stephanie Parker - our blog writer extraordinaire!



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